Musings of a Wanderess…. Why I Travel (Victoria’s Story)

A post from our Operations Manager, Victoria Barton, on why she values the opportunity to travel.

To explain why I so value travel, It feels easiest to tell you a little more about myself first.

I am:

·      A wife

·      A dog Mum

·      A sister

·      A daughter

·      A friend

·      An employee

·      A manager

Each of these roles defines me in relation to others, and while they are integral parts of who I am, they also come with a multitude of expectations and responsibilities. I navigate each role authentically, yet differently, adjusting to the situations and environments that these relationships entail. However, this constant adaptation can sometimes feel overwhelming, in stepping away from these relationships, even temporarily, I feel I regain a sense of perspective and a reaffirming of my identity.

Travel is my sanctuary. It allows me to shed these roles temporarily and regain a sense of self that is unbound by the expectations of others. When I travel, I am simply me—an explorer, an adventurer, a seeker of new experiences. My journey of self-discovery through travel began at 15, during a Spanish exchange program. Living with a Spanish family, speaking the language, and immersing myself in their culture, I realised the profound impact of stepping out of my comfort zone and embracing new experiences.  This experience and the homestays that followed ignited a love for the Spanish language, which I have shared by providing free tutoring to disadvantaged students. Being a proficient Spanish speaker has also come in very useful, once getting me out of trouble in a rural Italian village when they couldn’t find our booking.

Lessons on the way

In my early twenties, I ventured to Thailand alone to work on the ethical treatment of animals at a safari park. Collaborating with Thai locals, I ensured the animals’ holistic needs were met, beyond just their basic survival, meeting their behavioural and social needs.  This experience taught me the importance of thriving rather than merely surviving, a lesson that transcends into all areas of my life.  

While in Thailand, one experience that particularly impacted me was the prevalence of skin bleaching chemicals sold in even the smallest shops.  The availability of this product in local shops shocked and saddened me, highlighting to me the arbitrary and often harmful nature of beauty standards and prompting me to reflect on how societal pressures affect individuals globally.

Backpacking trips hold a special place in my heart as well. Traveling with only a backpack always reminds me of how little I need to feel content and fulfilled.  One such adventure was to Ireland, where I marvelled at the breath-taking scenery, danced to live bands, and met incredible people.  It always amazes me how easy it can be to form strong bonds with fellow travellers. There is a camaraderie, whereby everyone looks out for each other, no matter where you come from; in that moment, you are just two people each with a backpack in a place that isn’t home.

Through my travels, I have encountered diverse cultures, foods, landscapes, and people, each enriching my understanding of the world and my place within it. These experiences have created some of my most cherished memories, from grand adventures to quiet moments of reflection. They remind me of the vast, beautiful world beyond my everyday responsibilities—a world brimming with endless possibilities and experiences.

Travel not only reconnects me with myself but also broadens my perspective, fostering a deeper appreciation for life. It is in these moments of exploration that I find clarity, joy, and a reaffirmation of my true identity, unburdened by responsibilities and expectations.

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At Wanderess, we strive to offer truly unique opportunities to adventure and reconnect with yourself in breathtaking locations. Our retreats offer a rich tapestry of cultural immersion, allowing you to explore new horizons while nurturing your creative spirit. Here, you’ll find a safe and supportive environment designed to foster personal growth and self-discovery. Embrace the journey within, and let Wanderess inspire you to cultivate your passions and forge lasting connections with like-minded women. Your transformative escape awaits!